Practical tips on how to get safe and how to stay safe.
God Hates Divorce- Why would He help me? If an abusive marriage is good for anything then it is good for causing confusion and heartache. God intended marriage to be a blessing, something that brings glory to Him. Though some conflict is normal, and couples will face things together in life, your marriage should not …
Can You Set Boundaries in an Abusive Marriage? Boundaries can be set in any relationship and should be. They teach people how to treat you. Boundaries can help relationships grow by nurturing both parties in a way that is respectful for everyone. The only way boundary-setting works is when the boundaries are enforced. If a …
How to Find a Counselor & Prepare for an Intake Just like an attorney your counselor works for you. Taking time to consult multiple counselors to ensure you get a good fit is so worth the extra work. And because you are putting your brain in their hands, make sure you choose someone who is …
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7 Deadly Sins of Leacing and Abusive Relationship There are a lot of things I see women do that hurt their ability to have a clean break from their abuser. Domestic Violence is no joking matter, and the damage that is done can leave you feeling so lost and hopeless. We are going to talk …
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Communication Can Change After Leaving an Abuser- For the Better It’s common to feel frustrated at the way communication has been. One-sided, usually. He tells you what to do when to do it. You never get the chance to defend yourself. And the few times you have- didn’t end well. While I didn’t feel like …
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20 Things To Expect When Going Through A Divorce, as an Abuse Survivor You spend years trying to make a marriage work, only to be beaten down and broken by the one who swore to love you. The decision to leave wasn’t an easy one, and you felt the pain of the separation of two …
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You dream of a safe place to call home, and leaving is the step you need to take to get there. Leaving is not just one step though. It’s many steps, but don’t be discouraged you can do this! Here are some of the things that you need to think about in order to leave …
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The best advice that I didn’t want to hear. “You’re going to have to get as strong and as wise as you can. This isn’t going to be easy.” The best advice that I didn’t want to hear. Strength and wisdom will prepare you for your battle ahead. So go on, get strong and wise. …
Could being a single parent actually be a gift? No doubt feelings of void can leave you wondering if you’ve made the wrong choice. It can take some time to feel a sense of normalcy after a divorce. Being a single parent is without a doubt HARD, and that is not even the half of …
10 intentional ways to not let trauma rule your life and steal your joy. Trauma is a confusing thing; parenting a child dealing with trauma can be tough to navigate. Often they don’t know how to express what they’re going through, and it can be hard to know what to do to help. Below you …
