About Abuse

Getting clear on abuse and the effect sit has on women and children.

God Hates Divorce- Why would He help me? If an abusive marriage is good for anything then it is good for causing confusion and heartache. God intended marriage to be a blessing, something that brings glory to Him. Though some conflict is normal, and couples will face things together in life, your marriage should not […]

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7 Deadly Sins of Leacing and Abusive Relationship There are a lot of things I see women do that hurt their ability to have a clean break from their abuser. Domestic Violence is no joking matter, and the damage that is done can leave you feeling so lost and hopeless.  We are going to talk

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  The Gift of Parenting- Hope & Help for Single Moms I don’t know any other relationship other than a parent-child relationship,  that has so many ups and downs. There are sweet and confusing moments, sad and frustrating moments, cherished and missed moments. Parenting is both confusing and beautiful! You feed a little person who

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10 intentional ways to not let trauma rule your life and steal your joy. Trauma is a confusing thing; parenting a child dealing with trauma can be tough to navigate. Often they don’t know how to express what they’re going through, and it can be hard to know what to do to help. Below you

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Abuse is like killing a person every day of their life and expecting them to stand tall and look pretty. I risk sounding like a scrooge in order to put to words what so many feel at Christmas time. It should be such a time for joy, and peace.Yesterday, I was writing some ideas down

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Women who try to leave abusive relationships attempt to leave about seven times before leaving for good. You might be surprised to hear that, on average, women in abusive relationships try to leave their abusers seven times before they leave for good. To me, it’s a wonder any woman can leave at all, with all

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Can your actions cause your spouse to abuse you? “If I start swinging my arms and you don’t get out of the way, then it’s your fault you get hit,” I remember so clearly being told these words when confronting my abuser about the way he treated me. And it makes me wonder, how many

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Are you adding to the confusion a woman feels when she’s in a toxic relationship? I understand the urgency when someone you love is in a relationship that is destructive. You find yourself thinking, “Why won’t she just leave him?” or, “Why can’t she see what’s going on?” But maybe these questions are not helping

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Just in case you need some validation with these new feelings you’re having, I wrote this just for you. If you feel it’s time for something to change in your toxic relationship, you’re right. You don’t need me to tell you what to do. But a little validation is always nice. Here are the four

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